I had an entirely different post scheduled for today….
One about being present and listening to a heart rather than a word. It was a good post (no worries, look for it next Friday!) But then I read my friend Holley’s blog and it was just so perfect. It so fit my word for the year and so fit how I am seeking to live my life this year (and for many to come), I just had to share it with you….
We can all find ourselves pulled into negative conversations from everything from the weather to politics to what great aunt so-and-so did last week. The start of a new year always feels like the blank page of a new journal so guarding our words and helping others around us do the same is perhaps more important now than ever.
Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths,
but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs,
that it may benefit those who listen. – Eph. 4:29
So if you find yourself in the middle of gossip or a gripe fest, what can you do?
Here’s my go-to list of three kinds of questions to ask to help the conversation get back on track…will you jump over with me to Holley’s to read the rest? There’s a free printable download of the graphic above in it for ya :)…
And a little song to drive it all home…